As a young child, as I've mentioned countless times, my grandparents (mom's parents) lived/continue to live with us today. During the day, before I was old enough to attend preschool, my grandparents cared for me while my parents were at work. I know at one point, my mom was able to have her schedule for weekends only so that she could stay home and care for me as well. Also, my dad worked night shift so he would spend most of the days with me. I'm not exactly sure how long or how often these schedules lasted but what I do recall is mostly my grandma taking care of me, so it must've just been when I was very young that my parents had these schedules.
My educational experience, I think I can say is different from the majority as I attended private school from preschool until eighth grade. Although preschool-eighth is 13 years of my life, there wasn't much "change" as it was a small school and you would see the same faces everyday for 13 years and the fact that we had to wear uniforms as well just added to that constant image. What I just mentioned is actually what I like most and least about my private school. Even though it was small, I liked that our class sizes weren't too big and unless someone moved, it really was the same people; because of this, friendships were really easily maintained as you've been with the same people ever since we were all toddlers. Also, because the school is small, teachers remember you and it really makes for an excellent support system knowing that students and teachers have known you since we were younger and have been with us and watched us grow up. To this day, I am still in contact with some of my teachers and know that I'm older, it is helpful for networking or other possible opportunities.
I understand child development varies globally.
I understand religion and culture possess a large impact on development
I understand family size and dynamics can greatly improve or cause tension in the development of children.
I understand the parenting styles each have their own pros and cons regarding child development
I understand environmental factors have an impact.
I understand the physical and non physical resources available have a place in the development of children.
I understand social status of the family impacts development.
I understand the method of education (private, public, homeschool) have their various results on development
I understand the surroundings/environment of children, even at a young age, have impacts later on in their development.
I understand the voices and words and the tone they are spoken in has impact on the child's development beginning from those voices heard even while in the womb.
I understand body language plays a large part in the family because even newborns and toddlers can pick up on these nonverbal cues and sense change.
I understand that children are not as fortunate to be able to enjoy playing outside or to enjoy and gain an education
I understand neighborhoods and relationships with those in it affect the development of children, not necessarily direct impact such as people you talk to or play with, but environment as well such as loud parties, and the consistency thereof.
I understand that education & care at a young age impact each individual differently depending on the situation
I understand that there is no right/wrong answer to the above statement, that everyone has their own opinion and it's depending on what individuals make of their situations that matter.
I understand child development varies globally.
I understand religion and culture possess a large impact on development
I understand family size and dynamics can greatly improve or cause tension in the development of children.
I understand the parenting styles each have their own pros and cons regarding child development
I understand environmental factors have an impact.
I understand the physical and non physical resources available have a place in the development of children.
I understand social status of the family impacts development.
I understand the method of education (private, public, homeschool) have their various results on development
I understand the surroundings/environment of children, even at a young age, have impacts later on in their development.
I understand the voices and words and the tone they are spoken in has impact on the child's development beginning from those voices heard even while in the womb.
I understand body language plays a large part in the family because even newborns and toddlers can pick up on these nonverbal cues and sense change.
I understand that children are not as fortunate to be able to enjoy playing outside or to enjoy and gain an education
I understand neighborhoods and relationships with those in it affect the development of children, not necessarily direct impact such as people you talk to or play with, but environment as well such as loud parties, and the consistency thereof.
I understand that education & care at a young age impact each individual differently depending on the situation
I understand that there is no right/wrong answer to the above statement, that everyone has their own opinion and it's depending on what individuals make of their situations that matter.
Lani,
ReplyDeleteI think it is great that you were able to "grow up" with the same kids in your private school. Bonds that you made while growing up with those kids must be really strong. Do you still keep in contact with some of the kids along with the teachers that you mentioned?
Melissa
Lani,
ReplyDeleteI also forgot to mention in my blog about my grandparents (on mother's side). A large amount of my time spent in early elementary school was spent before and after school at their house. It always seems like our grandparents are good at helping with homework and spoiling us! It's also good to see that you had somewhat of a 'balanced' rotation going on with your care when you were young. I know I got to see my grandma far more than my dad most of the time due to the work hours he put in.
I completely agree that the 'small school' system is very beneficial on so many levels. It is also rather annoying as well :p. I also went to a small school (although public) and I feel like I had so much more of a well-rounded education. I really got to develop professional and friend relationships to a great degree as well!